You are the one projecting. You jumped at my comment for the opportunity it gave you to publicly defend your problems.
Stalking is never justifiable, period. But it is absolutely undeniable that men have had nastier tendencies about it than women. Does that justify crimes? No. Are you trying to invalidate a truth because it pokes your own problems? Yes.
If you need to know that male crimes towards women are always about sexual matters, refer yourself to the myriads of women who have been victimised by men, of which there a thousands of statistics, personal accounts, all of which correlate the same thing. Men don't know how to approach women sexually, so they do it poorly.
You can justify being right to yourself all you want, you are still denying the truth to do it.