This is sincerely so true and I'm going to bookmark this article for future reference. Truth is most women don't actually want to do anyway because nobody wants to do anything unless they're intrinsically motivated, and porn absolutely ignores the reality of it, the biggest problem is that it tries to use real people, real women, to accommodate that fantasy and it's just so, so wrong, because it's blatantly ignoring reality and hurting people because of it. Great article, nice sources.

I wouldn't otherwise say that platforms like insta have made women "more vapid" I think what we see is the results of years of grooming, and just women also wanting to use their sexuality on their own without being made to. So there's a lot going on there much more than just saying this.