Bringing us back full circle to my original point, that's why it's common in France to vote for the least worst candidate, a little bit like your post suggests "want to vote against X, but not for Y?"
I understand you consider voting to be super important, and you think you're gonna lose something if you don't convince people from abstaining. I can see this matters to you a lot, and you fear what would happen if people didn't vote, but I was never a strong believer that voting really is the key for change.
I do care, however, about change, and on that we can fully agree, that it's important to take the steps that are necessary for change. What we deem to be necessary, is unique to each of us.